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Dog Walking

11/17/2021

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If you own a dog, you might have noticed he has four legs. Legs that move. Legs that like to move. These legs can be turned loose in a fenced yard. Our neighbor has such a dog. I can’t tell if the legs are getting exercised, but the jaw muscles are overworked as verified by a stream of yaps.
 
For others, though, there is the dog walk, highly suggested for the many joys it provides.
 
Meet neighbors. This is recommended especially after moving to a new home. New neighbors may not do more than nod as you walk by, unless you are tethered to a dog who is recognized as the most recent canine on the block. People are more than happy to ask to pet him. It’s a quick way to become part of the community and friendships can build so conversation occurs even after you’re no longer new to the area. In my previous neighborhood there was a friend who walked his dog around the block and talked with everyone. The dog, seeing yet another conversation in the offing, did the equivalent of a theatrical shrug and settled down for a nap.
 
Meet other dog owners. There’s a special bond between those who share love for dogs. Almost without exception they greet each other with a smile, a wave, and a friendly word. It helps to say something nice about their dog, never a bad move. “Wow, your dog is beautiful!” “What a cute puppy!” “There’s a friendly fellow.” Even if the dog is ugly and snarling there’s the old standby, “That’s an interesting dog.”
 
Give your dog social opportunities. Dogs love to interact with others of their species, at least most of the time. They butt noses. They investigate areas of their bodies in a manner that would draw the police if humans acted the same way. Most of the time there is no problem. On rare occasions one of the dogs may be too aggressive and it’s wise to let the original approach be slow and leash controlled. My dog has at least ten friends in the area. And one enemy, a nasty piece of work that scares even me and we avoid that contact.
 
Take advantage of an opportunity to train your dog. Walking a dog is so much pleasanter if you can pass by another canine without your dog going crazy. So this is an opportunity to train him to “act nice.” Easy to say. I know some people are gifted at the training project. I tend to believe it’s just the luck of the draw. My current dog is very good. He’s happy to greet when a greeting is offered, but he’ll trot right by with barely a sideways glance otherwise. Not like a greyhound I once had who ignored 90% of the dogs encountered but absolutely hated the remaining 10%. And I could never discover a pattern. So I had the opportunity to train and flunked.
 
Save house from disasters. Not much discussion necessary here. The dog takes in food and water necessitating an emptying location. Neighborhood lawns are a significantly better solution than living room rugs. Just remember to bring a poop bag.
 
Stimulate the dog. I heard somewhere that walks should be varied in order to stimulate your pet’s mind. I also like to think it imprints more of the surrounding neighborhood in your dog’s memory so if he ever gets loose there is a greater probability of finding his way home.
 
Get exercise. I have a friend who wants to get in 7,000 steps a day. She’s a walker so that’s generally not a problem. Except on days she doesn’t exercise. I suggested she get a dog which, if walked, guarantees a minimum level of several thousand steps. And remember walking is recognized as one of the best ways to maintain one’s own health, let along the dog’s.
 
Enjoy the neighborhood. You moved into it for a reason. Revel in it as you stroll with your pet. Note the house designs that make your neighborhood unique. Take pleasure in front yards that are filled with natural plants or vegetable gardens. At holiday times view and enjoy the decorations. And when you meet someone tell them you like what he/she has done with his/her home.
 
There indeed are many reasons to take your pet for a stroll a couple of times a day. But maybe the most important is providing him with the joys of sniffing those marvelous ever-changing odors that must be fully enjoyed every foot or so.
 
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I wish all of you the happiest of holiday seasons. I’m going to take my annual break over them. I hope you’ll rejoin me on January 5, 2022.
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A Curmudgeon's View on Toys

11/10/2021

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Since the holidays are approaching, let’s talk about toys.
 
In pre-COVID days I would take detours in big box stores to check out the toy section. This is not a new passion. As a kid I loved the store in East Orange, New Jersey devoted only to the desires of the young. And the concept of toys still appeals. After all, I have a model train! But most of the time I leave the toy area with feelings of sadness, disgust, and disappointment.
 
I am struck by how unimaginative so many of the toys are, their obvious susceptibility to breakage, and their cost. With regard to the latter, I wonder how parents these days can afford the current “in” toys. Do they give up other things for that, or do the kids go without?
 
I began to dwell on my childhood. What were the toys I had that still reside in my memory?
 
Tinker Toys, Lincoln Logs, Erector Sets. I recall spending hours with them. parts strewn about the floor, slowly creating the design I had in my head. Then, when I was done, breaking it all down and starting again.
 
These toys still exist, but usually I don’t find them on the Target shelves. And they’re not cheap. I discovered Lincoln Logs ranging in price from a starter set at $29.99 to a 437-piece unit for over $100, a 208-piece Tinker Toy box for $38.99, Erector Sets starting in the $25 range and a 954-piece gem (counting each screw) for $108.71. Often they proclaim with pride they are composed of parts made from real wood or real metal, rather than plastic versions that are available.
 
I like these toys for the reason I mentioned previously. Once an idea is created in a child’s mind, it can be constructed, then torn down and something new built. The imagination and creativity can soar.
 
Except the manufacturers of these great toys have developed a technique which I’m sure is designed to increase sales but, I believe, has a detrimental effect on a kid’s creativity. Take that 954-piece Erector Set, for example. What is its claim to fame? It contains all the parts needed to construct a Ferris wheel, instructions included. Well, that sounds like fun. In fact, I did just that for my train set, except I used miscellaneous scraps found around the house for a total cost of $0.00 instead of $108.71. Lincoln Logs has a 268-piece boxed set for the construction of a “classic farmhouse.” I don’t have major problems with these because the parts don’t have to be used for the intended purpose or according to any enclosed instructions. But the message is: build what’s pictured on the box and in the way we tell you to. I’d rather the message be: here are parts, do something with them. Fortunately, one still can get unspecified use sets.
 
Lego is another great idea that can encourage creativity. Sadly, that company has gone overboard on special sets for special projects. But the basic concept is a good one and, if not subtly restricted by specific use sales, can unleash the incredible creativity of youth.
 
I also recommend having available various colors of construction paper, a ruler preferably in metric scale, scissors, a bottle of Elmer’s Glue-All, and no directions. It’s relatively cheap too.
 
When my kids were small, I made a set of blocks from five eight-foot 2x4s. While I can’t recall the exact makeups, it would be something like this.
 
  • 10 2-foot lengths
  • 9 1-foot lengths
  • 8 6-inch lengths
  • 2 2-foot lengths where each is cut at a diagonal to create four triangles
  • 2 1-foot lengths where each is cut at a diagonal to create four triangles
  • 2 6-inch lengths where each is cut at a diagonal to create four triangles
 
Those blocks turned into everything: a road, a fortress, a mountain, a falling chain when set up like dominoes and the first one pushed over. It provided fun for years. I made a set for my nephew and decades later for his son, my grandnephew.
 
I am so far out of the toy loop these days that my gripes may not be valid. But I would opt for toys that are both fun and tap into the natural creativity of the young—and this definitely eliminates violent video games.

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The Beginning of the End?

11/3/2021

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I woke ready to post my prepared blog for today.
 
Then I read about the election results and am so sick and disgusted I simply couldn’t go forward as planned.
 
Virginia seems to have turned red. The governor for sure. And quite possibly the lieutenant governor, the state attorney general, and the House of Delegates.
 
New Jersey is poised to retain Democratic leadership but in an election that is closer than is comfortable.
 
Many think this is a harbinger of a strong Republican takeover of the national House and Senate in 2022.
 
I am sure there are positive outcomes in lesser races around the country, but I fear an overall trend.
 
My only hope had been that there would be such a nationwide feeling of outrage and disgust for how Republicans have behaved and how they have threatened the future of our country that the electorate would have rejected them in order to return sanity to the nation.
 
I’m so naïve.
 
Preliminary analysis indicates the voters are unhappy with Joe Biden whose poll numbers are lower that most presidents at this stage in their term. The people are angry with the way he has handled the pandemic.
 
Did I just say that? They are angry with the way he has handled the pandemic! After all he has tried to do to bring the virus to its knees, and after all the Republicans have done to thwart measures based on sound medical advice and scientific findings. I just don’t understand the thinking.
 
Now I don’t think Biden and the Democratic leadership are blameless. For crying out loud, they’ve got the infrastructure bill already passed by the Senate and the 1.75 trillion-dollar additional bill to expand Medicare, deal with climate change, and help solve other problems. Bills the public seems to highly favor.
 
But can the Democrats get them passed? I have serious doubts. They’d rather have bitter infighting with more conservative senators willing to sacrifice all and whiny immature Progressives willing to sacrifice all, including any hope for their own agendas and the future of their party.
 
I don’t know what goes on behind the public view, but Biden does seem weak to me, at least in his inability to force congressional Democrats to back his key legislative agenda. Can you imagine Lyndon Johnson acting the same way?
 
I guess I will, probably foolishly, hold out hope that the 2022 election will right the ship. But if it doesn’t and Trumpism isn’t wiped out, and it seems unlikely, we can say goodbye to the country as we know it.
 
Did we see, yesterday, the beginning of the end?
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