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Embrace the Unexpected

1/26/2022

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Over the Thanksgiving weekend Disney released in three parts an eight-hour documentary on the Beatles, showing how they worked to create the songs for their album Let It Be. It culminated in the famed roof top concert.
 
I have liked the Beatles but have not been an ardent fan by any means. So it was a bit of a shock when I wound up enjoying the full eight hours.
 
I got a kick of how folks in the street were interviewed during the concert. Most thought it was a great thing. But there were a few who did not. One woman claimed she was asleep and was rudely awakened by the noise. The police, who didn’t have a clue on how to handle the situation, complained to the doorkeepers of the building where the concert was held that they had received over 30 complaints in a ten-minute time frame.
 
This concert, which doubled as a recording session, was not announced in advance. I wish I had been on that English street that day and come across it. Not primarily for the music although that was good. But for the excitement of something going on that was so far from the ordinary. A massive disruption of everyday life.
 
I am sorry for those who think any interference in their normal routine is an imposition. I feel for that woman whose sleep was disturbed that she couldn’t have realized something very very different was going on and been thrilled by it.
 
It reminded me of an experience I had a few decades ago. The neighborhood where I lived was a Mecca for movie companies and those filming TV ads, usually at least a couple every year. That in itself was exciting, and I would walk to any activity and watch for a while.
 
But one such event that occurred on my street had a special added attraction. A giraffe was going to be present! A giraffe! I felt sorry for the animal being in captivity, but l simply couldn’t help but be thrilled by the prospect of it walking up my street.
 
Not everyone shared my excitement. One of my neighbors hated the inconvenience of the shutdown of our street to traffic. She could not see the delight of this amazing deviation from the norm.
 
I had no such trouble. I looked forward to the early nighttime event for well over a week, from the moment I heard it was to occur. I was bummed that I had an evening class that day, and it would be tough to get home on time. I told my students what was to happen, and they were as interested as I. Finally, after a productive class and at five minutes before its end I said, “I’m sorry folks, I look out at you all and all I see is a bunch of giraffes. Let’s call it quits.” They laughed and cooperated.
 
I needn’t have worried about missing anything as I arrived home in plenty of time. And it was all I could have asked for, with the giraffe staring into the second story window of the townhouse owned by the woman who was angry about the disruption to her life.
 
This same woman objected to a half marathon that passed by our homes every year. Certainly not as exciting as a giraffe, but still an interesting experience.
 
We are all comfortable in the routines we settle on. They give us a sense of security and confidence. But we can get bogged down in routine so much we don’t know how to revel in the unexpected that can lighten lives too set in routine.
 
It’s too bad.  
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Is There No Limit?

1/19/2022

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The headline (Orlando Sentinel November 10, 2021) read:
 
Teen tied family dog to tree, killed pet with sword.
 
I sobbed. I couldn’t read the article that followed. All that day the headline haunted me. It stayed with me over the holidays. I kept seeing the unsuspecting dog ready to trust and give unending love happily accompanying the teenager to the tree. To be executed.
 
I felt compelled to write about it. But not right away. That’s not a story I wished to put in anyone’s mind but my own as so many joyous holidays were in the offing. It could wait until the new year. Until now.
 
I knew I would have to read the article and the next day I summoned the strength to do so. The mother and stepfather had called the police, saying they wanted to press charges. They said the boy had shown “a progression of violence” and were fearful for the safety of other children and animals in their home. The police report said the dog had experienced “a very inhumane and cruel death.”
 
Why didn’t the parents do something earlier?
 
I don’t know why this story affected me so much. After all, I’ve become inured to the cruelties we humans inflict. This has been going on for millennia. Just think about the evils that have impacted our own lives.
 
The Holocaust.
Slavery, Jim Crow, and chronic racism.
Hunting for sport as opposed to food.
Domestic violence.
Mass shootings.
Murder following a minor road mishap.
Making a boy who killed protestors a hero.
 
I’m sick of it all. I realize there is no way to prevent all such calamities, but I can’t help but wonder if we haven’t sunk as a society to a depth never before seen. Have we developed a mindset where concern for life has plummeted, where the sanctity and amazement of life is unimportant?
 
I know there are gangs and criminal organizations which will kill without blinking an eye. Terrible as they are, they are not the ones I’m thinking of. I’m talking about the evil that exists in those whom we think of as our neighbors, about whom one never would predict their cruelty.
 
The evil that has resulted from ever looser gun laws that allow anyone to become a killing machine.
The evil that social media creates to spew the latest incendiary trash.
The evil parents teach their kids when they threaten and physically attack school board members.
The evil that follows when compromise is a dirty word.
 
So, with all these terrible treatments of humans, why did the dog’s murder bother me so much whereas I can read about a shooting without breaking up?
 
I think it’s that the dog is the most innocent of creatures, the most giving and loving of creatures. Perhaps in my mind he represents all the innocent victims of the world.
 
I’m convinced that the cruelties I’m discussing are more frequent now than ever before in my life. I think our collective mindset has to change. I think we should learn to offer the love that the dog would have.
 
We have to rise. We cannot sink lower. Nor can we stay at the depths we currently inhabit.
 
Or we are doomed.
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The Missing Section

1/12/2022

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On January 6, 2022 President Joe Biden gave a rousing speech in the Statuary Hall of our country’s Capitol, the same place where a year earlier criminals broke in, caused extensive damage, and in a sane world would have been arrested for treason.
 
It was great to see him angry, to call out the lies that have been perpetrated, and to lay much of the blame on a defeated former president whose ego, insecurity, and selfishness could not handle loss.
 
I watched a rerun of the speech a couple of days after it was delivered and noted that he gave a shout out to those few Republicans who stood for the country and our constitution.
 
I think there should have been another section in the speech. Something like the following.
 
* * * * *
 
For a moment I want to speak to the Republicans in Congress, those in legislatures throughout the country, and all the faithful voters who have supported their party’s current stands.
 
I know you. I’ve worked with several of you in the Congress. I come from a working-class background and am aware of the concerns many of you face in providing a home and living for your family.
 
I know you are smart enough to recognize lies when you hear them. I know most of you love our democracy and want to preserve it. I know many of you have been in our military and put your life on the line to protect our freedoms and the ideals of our country.
 
I am asking you to question what is true and what is not. Don’t just listen to biased news reports or whatever appears on social media. Use your wonderful mind to ask what makes sense and what is hogwash. I believe if you do that you will realize the way some are trying to influence your thinking instead of having faith in you to think for yourselves. They are disrespecting you as an individual. Show them you have the courage to make up your own mind instead of parroting what others say.
 
Speaking of courage, I realize those serving in our legislatures, national and state, are in a bind. An unscrupulous former president and others with no integrity have you fearful for your jobs. I am sorry about that, and what I’m going to ask you to do may well risk your office.
 
What I want is difficult: I want you to be honest with yourself. I think most of you know you are endorsing a pack of lies that will damage our nation. I’m asking you to bring forth your better selves. Have the courage to stand for the truth. Be willing to lose your seat in the pursuit of truth. I guarantee you will feel better for having taken the correct stand. And you will be all right. You have what it takes to be elected to office, so you have what it takes to succeed even if that office is temporarily denied you.
 
And you will feel the satisfaction and contentment that are allotted only to heroes.
 
I am counting on you.
 
Our nation is counting on you.
 
* * * * *
 
I wish the President’s speechwriters had included something like this. It might not have accomplished anything, but how could it harm? And maybe, just maybe, it would make some people uncomfortable enough to rethink their position.

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Peace and Good Will?

1/5/2022

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We are emerging from what is to me the best part of the year. A time supposedly dedicated to peace and good will, goals of most people no matter what their religious affiliation or lack thereof. How has that worked out during this halcyon period?
 
The “Ticked Off” section of my local paper had contributors calling others “idiots” and worse.
 
The murder rate proceeded at a steady pace, with guns being the most popular weapon of choice.
 
Inconsequential differences resulted in death. In one such case a man shot another as the result of an argument about loud music and in a second the murder followed a disagreement concerning placement of a light.
 
Snatch and grab gangs broke store windows and made off with merchandise in seconds including one haul of a million dollars in purses, some of which were valued at over $100,000. Of course, purses worth that are a crime in themselves.
 
Celebrities continued to be accused of sexual assault, probably a tiny percentage of what went on among those not famous enough for news coverage.
 
Public school students threatened, bullied, fought, and hinted at shootings.
 
Former President Trump indicated he’ll hold a rally January 6 one year after the insurrection and Capitol breach.
 
The Bidens, in an attempt to bring Christmas Eve cheer to some lucky kids via NORAD’s tracking of Santa’s worldwide ride, had a pleasant conversation with one family until the father said, “Let’s go Brandon” and hung up.
 
I think it was this last incident that upset me the most. It just seems so indicative of the depths to which we as a nation have sunk. Whatever happened to common decency and respect for others?
 
Of course, thank goodness, there still was plenty of that.
 
Neighbors wished you a Merry Christmas or Happy New Year or Happy Holidays.
 
Dedicated volunteers and employees worked hard to feed the hungry, house the homeless, and cure the sick.
 
Salvation Army Santas rang their bells and offered holiday wishes.
 
Harried store personnel tried, for the most part, to convey the holiday cheer.
 
The James Webb space telescope successfully launched to initiate an incredibly complicated series of events that must all work perfectly for the mission to succeed.
 
Charlie Brown’s Christmas continued to light up our screens, along with It’s a Wonderful Life and a multitude of other holiday classics.
 
Parents sacrificed and did whatever they could to bring the season’s joy to their children.
 
Given the good as well as the bad, I found myself wondering if the conditions I’ve described are really different from the way they’ve always been, or am I just becoming a disgruntled jerk. After all, there always have been obnoxious people and criminals during the holidays.
 
My conclusion, though, is that the current situation is different from the past. It is a significant step backwards for our communities and nation. I have been reading a biography of Kurt Gödel, a brilliant logician who proved an amazing result when he was 24. A significant part of his life occurred between the two world wars when Austria, where he lived, transformed from a democracy to a fascist state.
 
Those times included hatred and violence against the Jewish population, fascist groups willing to physically attack current standards, disruptions of schools and universities for not thinking “right,” and a denigration of science and learning in general.
 
That description of Austria reminded me all too clearly of the same lack of respect and thinking and brutality that occurred over the recent holidays. I have been convinced for some time that our democracy is in danger. I have seen nothing to alter my view.
 
Too many people these days eschew the holiday spirit with a willingness to confront, disrespect, and physically harm.
 
I dread to think where we will be in December 2022.

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